wondering

well....i found this somewhere so im copying it & posting it
there's something bout this thingy
im keep wondering...let us think bout this aite? so read it carefully
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A student asked a teacher, "what is love ?" The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the paddy field and choose the biggest paddy and come back.

But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."

The student went to the field, went through the first row..he saw one big paddy,but he wonders....may be there will be a bigger one later. Then he saw another bigger one... but maybe there is an even bigger one waiting for him. Later, when he finished more than half of the paddy field, he started to realise that the paddy is not as big as the previous ones he saw.he knew that he had missed the biggest one, and he regretted !!!! So he went back to the teacher with empty hands.

The teacher told him, "...this is love... you keep looking for a better one, but later when you realise, you have already missed the person...."

" What is marriage then ?" the student asked.

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back.

But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick.

" The student went to the corn field...this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake. when he reached the middle of the field, he had picked one medium corn that he felt satisfied with, and came back to the
teacher.

The teacher told him, "this time you have brought back a corn....you look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe that this is the best one you are to get.... this is marriage ."